I'm so enjoying these male writers telling us why #Maleficent isn't really a feminist film. Go away dude bros.
— Film Fatale (@FilmFatale_NYC) June 2, 2014
My latest --> 3 Valuable Lessons In Feminism We Learned from "Maleficent": http://t.co/ZVyt6q98gg via @theurbandaily #Maleficent #Feminism
— Film Fatale (@FilmFatale_NYC) May 30, 2014
3 Valuable Lessons In Feminism We Learned From “Maleficent” [OPINION]
She’s b-a-a-a-ck! After a nearly 3 year acting hiatus, Hollywood’s Queen Bee, Angelina Jolie is back in fighting form in Disney’s “Maleficent.” An imaginative re-telling of the classic “Sleeping Beauty,” screenwriters Linda Woolverton and Charles Perrault flesh out one of the most terrifying villains in fairytale land, proving there’s more than one side to every story. The Urban Daily lists three reasons why “Maleficent” is a surprisingly feminist manifesto and should be on your “must-see” list this weekend:
1. Your feminism is not my feminism and that’s OK. One of the most moving scenes of “Maleficent” is when Aurora comes face to face with her “nemesis.” Sure that the young princess will be scared off by her appearance, Maleficent steps out of the shadows and in wonderment, Aurora reaches out to touch Maleficent’s fearsome horns. In that moment two women from two very different worlds enter a space where they see and accept each other for exactly who they are. Aurora’s girly-girl sweetness and Maleficent’s powerful warrior queen personas, rather than create conflict, end up complementing each other. Feminism isn’t about strong-arming other women to adopt your views, but understanding what makes us different strengthens the feminist community.
2. Women can have a “happily ever after” without Prince Charming. From the time we are little girls, we are enraptured with the idea of the “knight in shining armor” – that one man who will sweep us off our feet and take us to the land of milk and honey. It’s gotten to the point that we don’t feel validated as women unless we have a man and a ring to prove our worth to the world. “Maleficent” bucks the archaic Prince Charming trope, and reminds us that by empowering ourselves, only we can change our lives for the better.
3. Women will always need each other. What sets “Maleficent” apart from other Hollywood fairytale movies is the relationship between the title character and her “nemesis” Princess Aurora. Female villains are usually portrayed as older, spiteful harpies obsessed with gaining back their youth and beauty (please refer to the dreadful “Snow White and the Huntsman”). Maleficent’s anger isn’t borne out of jealousy, but rather anger at Aurora’s father, who betrays Maleficent by violating her in the cruelest way imaginable. What “Maleficent” does quite beautifully is show how even the deepest hurts can be healed when we open ourselves to the friendships with the women in our lives. The world can be a cruel place, but we can’t get through it without our girls. “Maleficent” opens in theaters nationwide today!
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There was a powerful message I took from Maleficent. It will take more than one tweet to explain, so bear with me. No spoilers.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Women have been subjected to so much strife, hurt, pain, and near destruction because of men's often misogynistic addiction to power
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Women have been, historically, mere pawns or distractions, often used to get ahead and often blamed when men can't get what they want
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Women have the right to be angry and hurt. They have the right to acknowledge pain. They have the right to express their hurt.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
However, the greatest achievement of women, IMO, has been in our capacity to forgive and love and continue on despite ALL of that
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
If we hold onto the pain, it will eat us alive and turn us into people we don't even recognize. It will hurt the ones we love.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
We often go through so much at the hands of men, that we lose ourselves and act out in destructive ways. It's hard for many to not do so.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Ultimately, however, we must forgive those who harm us and we must forgive ourselves and stop blaming ourselves for everything
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
This movie's greatest message is, to me, that there is strength in vulnerability and there is power in learning to embrace true love.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I would declare Maleficent a must-see if you've been waiting for a story that represents the complexities and autonomy of powerful women.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I walked away from Maleficent thinking on how difficult it is to be a woman with power and how some will stop at nothing to cripple you.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I will issue a TW for anyone who has been sexually assaulted while drugged, as there is slight suggestion of it in one of the scenes
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
There is also quite a bit of physical violence against women at the hands of men, so I'd issue a TW for that too.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Probably the best imagery was in the portrayal of how the pursuit of power drives men to madness and how their greed has been so destructive
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I thought about how hardened women often have to become to be powerful and be leaders bc the threats are so real.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Angelina Jolie really tapped into women's pain and was stunning. She was definitely the best choice.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I'm going through these reviews by male film critics.... My goodness they either totally missed the point or they understood it completely
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I'm not surprised they would pan it. It's not for them lol
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
That stumble... I've taken it. I know it. I've felt it. I've been there.
"I had wings once. They were stolen from me"
Whew.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
I almost lost it.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Maleficent is a movie for SA survivors, for real.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
And that might explain why so many dudes panned it. *eye roll*
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
Sometimes, we speak and act in anger and can't take back the hurt and pain we've caused. Another #Maleficent lesson.
— Baeminist (@FeministaJones) June 1, 2014
We're live! Tune in to "Cinema in Noir" http://t.co/D0AVYGMwQV - we're reviewing "Maleficent" and "A Million Ways To Die In The West"
— Film Fatale (@FilmFatale_NYC) June 1, 2014