Tuesday, November 1, 2016




Random Fuzzy


The question was raised by a reader (welta), why divorce in lieu of legal separation?


This is my best guess as to why she and her advisers chose this route:


Immediate Effect
"Unlike divorce, a legal separation takes effect immediately after it is ordered."

"After you file for divorce, you must wait an additional six months before your divorce can be final, but there is no waiting period for a legal separation."

Filing for Divorce or Separation FAQs
Q. I filed for divorce, but I have changed my mind and want to cancel the case. What should I do?

A. If you are the 1 who filed for divorce, you can file a Request for Dismissal (Form CIV-110) to dismiss your case, as long as the divorce or legal separation is not final yet.


Bearing in mind that she doesn't really want to be divorced or legally separated, filing for divorce gives her more time to file a Request for Dismissal.


 -- Fussy


22 comments:

  1. Thank you Fussy :) even if I'm still preparing myself for the worse, this makes sense and gives me hope.At this point I think no news is good news ( he didn't answer her petition and she's clearly waiting for something, otherwise she would have asked for injuction - I guess?)

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  2. Thanks Fussy for being so informative, it really does make sense.

    Let's wait for the best.

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  3. I just want that the investigation is over soon so if everything it is already worked out in private Angie will file a Request for Dismissal. I don`t think neither of them want a divorce. Noticed how they acted with they past divorces. In those cases there were really over with the whole thing. That is not the case here.

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    1. I agree with you Fiorella, but this is different from their previous divorces. They can never be over with each other - they have six children together. Being married or not, they will be conected and family for the rest of their lives.

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  4. I agree that it doesn't look like it's totally over she would be buying instead of renting a house for herself and the kids and she definitely would went back to Jolie instead of remaining Jolie Pitt.

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  5. They happily celebrate their wedding anniversary just weeks after the accident. And reading the divorce filling we now know their wedding date is 08.14.2014

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  6. And something to add: when you ask a legal separation, you have to agree over custody, belongings, support, etc...The judge agree on your legal separation over a written document, besides restraining orders .
    tHis was not the case. Obviously she had no choice than filing for divorce because they couldn't have an agreement ready cause of dfcs; Hope it makes sense.

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  7. Allied premiere is next week
    Wednesday, November 9 at 7 PM - 10 PM PST
    https://www.facebook.com/events/693412814150499/

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    1. Thanks for the information. Do you know if Brad is confirm to go to the premiere?

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    2. Unfortunately i don't know. Wait and see. Hope Angelina will be there for support.

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  8. Thank you again, Fussy.

    I'm still a little in shock over that Brad running away paragraph from yesterday's post. Shakes head how I missed that piece of info. In those moments I pity Angie, how painful that must have been. She loves him to put up with that treatment. I don't see it has cooling off, but as being selfish.

    Staying positive that Brad has worked through this for his family and values what he has. In my eyes he's beyond blessed.

    But I wanted to post a thought about filing a Request for Dismissal. What better time to take some of the heat off than the US Presidential election next Tuesday. That event will eat up the news cycle for days.

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    2. I don't know if we should take People for gospel. They say he didn't go home with the family while US has something else claims they were both questioned and then released. I think I had even read somewhere else that he stayed over in Minnesota. Its so much out there no one really knows the truth but them.

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    3. My theory, I think they had to separate because dcfs wanted the abuser out of sight from the kids .

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    4. It got me when the 'source' said Brad often stayed at hotels after an argument. That's a pattern and hopefully part of what he's working on.

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    5. But remember that line came from the why she left issue they put out the day before the incident was reported so I don't know. Plus in that same issue where they got that line from it was claimed by the 'source' Jolie was bored and Pitt no longer fit in her life plans. They basically picked out things from that issue and added it to the story about dcfs so I would take People's info with a grain of salt. Plus he has his an office on the property so why go to a hotel.

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  9. Tabloïds know nothing
    Don't let them get to you!
    An hotel while he has multiple houses in his LA compount?
    Why take the risk with their scrutinized life?
    This time is different, they couldn't play it , it was out of their hands.
    Btw they proved they are not fake people.

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  10. Fussy what do you think are the chances Angelina will be at the Allied premiere since we don't know if the DCFS investigation is still open or if they would announce if it was closed.

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    1. Wouldn't that be a great way to announce to the world they're back together??

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    2. I think there is a zero chance of that. Even if they are patching things between them, it will be a process and it will take time to heal.

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  11. I think it will be a long walk for the family can restructure and heal. A big family with 8 people and different personalities each reacting in a way.
    I think after this traumatic episode, and how the communication medias, and how it could influence and disrupt the safety of children involved with DCFS.
    They will become less accessible to those medias, I think this episode will greatly affect their relationship with reports, magazines, TV channels ...... they will be much more selective.

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    1. Totally agree with this. A lot will change from this point on.

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